If you can believe it, there are literally tens of thousands of people who have genuinely found love online with adult dating sites. And they are perfectly happy, now living together, some have married and some have taken the next step and have had children.
Whats wrong with dating online? Nothing, but a lot of people in denial about their lives see it as a stigma, a weakness, an act of desperation for those who cannot function like a normal member of society by finding their partner in the real world. I beg to differ. Things have changed massively over the past few years and the internet no longer has the social stigma it once had.
Yes, sexual predators often use the internet to rope in their victims but these are uncontrolled online communication tools that have no governing laws. If you know what to look out for and where to go, you will be in for the dating experience of your lifetime. Is a busy executive, successful yet working more than 90 hours a week a by product of social stigmatism just because he is looking for a date online? What about a person who is shy and too fearful to approach a member of the opposite sex finding the courage he or she needs online? What about someone who is affected by a blemish? Or in a part of the world wrought by disaster? What then?
We have to think outside of the small minded theories of the internet and look back through the emerging moral kaleidoscope of the post modern world. The internet has become the platform for people all over the world to find love and why not? Is it so inconceivable that a platform borne out of technology, one that connects more than 6 million people a day be used to create beautiful love amongst two willing and consenting adults? Why must we be limited by our surroundings. We should never be forced by principles and by aspects of our existence into loneliness or being with someone that we do not truly love.
The world is truly our oyster and the adult dating online scene has helps many to reach out from beyond their struggling and lonely lives and thrust them back into a world of happiness. Opening an email with the same excitement as reading a love letter and the feeling of anticipation as one awaits the reply from someone miles away. The destination of love is always the same, the vehicle might have changed a bit but happiness comes eventually. I will say now and here that no one should be afraid of adult dating online, the only fear that they should have is fear itself, fear to not try it out, fear of being labeled weird or desperate by obviously ignorant people. Once you overcome this fear, you might find that you can and will meet the person of your dreams.